When I began my ministry I really believed that I had to touch everything that happened in the church. I was young and a self-admitted workaholic so that wasn't a problem for the first few years, but it eventually caught up to me. I was close to burning out. I was diagnosed with clinical depression that was due in large part to pastoring a church, working a full time job in a factory, attending a Bible school, and trying to meet the needs of a wife and two children. When I write or talk about the dangers of living an unbalanced life it comes from my own personal experience.
At an annual meeting of our region I sought out my judicatory leader and told him of my struggles. He explained that much of my problem was that I was trying to be the church. I was doing it all. He went on to say that I was also depriving the congregation of the opportunity for them to be the church. He helped me understand I was cheating them out of the privilege of doing ministry. The next week I shared with our congregation what I was going through and my conversation with this leader. I also announced some changes in how I would serve as their pastor. One of my challenges at that point was that I didn't know how to do anything other than what I had been doing. It was a learning curve for me as well as for the church.
A resource I wish I had back then is a great book written by someone who is as committed to bivocational ministry as I am. Terry Dorsett has written a book called
John Maxwell has a saying that "Teamwork makes the dream work." I think that's true. Most of us went into bivocational ministry because we sensed God was calling us to do so. We began our ministries with wonderful dreams of making a difference for God. However, for too many of us those dreams turned into nightmares as we allowed ourselves to become over-extended. If we want to see those original dreams accomplished we need to invest ourselves into developing and training teams in our churches that will allow us to enjoy far more ministerial success than if we try to do everything ourselves.
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