Bivocational ministers come from a wise range of backgrounds and educational levels. I've known bivocational ministers who had PhDs from major universities, and I've known others who had a high school education. Some are seminary professors, and others work in a factory as I did during much of my bivocational pastorate. How do we develop these individuals who have been called by God to this specific ministry, and a second question is what kind of training do they need?
I will devote a few future postings to these questions, but let me just touch on one area of training these individuals will need. Few things are more important in a smaller, bivocational church that relationships. These churches are often called family churches for good reasons. Relationship in these churches is #1. This means that the pastors of these churches, if they want to enjoy successful ministries, must be relational people. They must be persons who can interact successfully with members of their churches. It hurts me to say this, but I see a lot of pastors who seriously need to work on their people skills.
Once again LifeWay did a study on pastor terminations and found that the top five reasons pastors were terminated by their churches were due to relationship issues. These same top five reasons may shift places from one year to the next, but they have remained the top five reasons for a decade or longer. More pastors lose their jobs each year because they cannot work well with members of their congregations than lose their jobs over doctrinal issues or any other issue. I don't know if the numbers have been broken down by size of church, but my guess is that, because smaller churches
I don't remember a lot of classes in seminary that addressed relationships; in fact, I don't think I had any. If this is the number one reason why ministers are terminated it seems that this is a topic that should be addressed as we prepare persons for ministry. Until that changes it will be up to judicatories and para-church groups to develop that kind of training for their ministers, including their bivocational ministers.
Leadership is all about having people willing to follow you, and if they don't like you or respect you they aren't apt to follow you. Relationship building
What do you think?